How to "Deal" With Grief Around the Holidays

How to "Deal" With Grief Around the Holidays

Everyday we are missing our Passed Loved Ones, but during the holidays it can be especially bittersweet. We want to celebrate with our family and friends that are physically here, but of course we are always thinking of the ones that aren't with us (physically). Here are some ways you can still honor them. They are with YOU still!! They want to communicate with you regularly, ESPECIALLY around the holidays.  They want to see you smile. Share this video with those that need this message right now.

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Signs and My Conversation with Tyrese

When we think of signs and connections to the other side we think it has to be this huge message in the form of a loud voice, but it doesn't always have to be this way. In fact, it's usually very subtle. When losing a Loved One, we replay the conversations we had with them. The one thing I know for sure is when we are tuning into the memories of our Loved Ones or run into my people or situations that remind us of them, this is an example of our Loved Ones nudging us to pay attention to their presence. I got to catch up with Tyrese Gibson, on Skype, and he shared his view point on signs and Loved Ones that have passed. Click here to watch:

When Your Vibe is Positive, You will Be Tested with Resistance

Can you think of a moment where you felt like you were on top of the world? I hope you've been aware of how great this feels. With every positive increasing vibe, you will attract resistance around you. You can easily crumble when you feel this moment of resistance, or you expect it to come about and easily flow away. The Law of Non-Resistance is the real deal, expect it. It's your sign making you aware that your vibration is up. Check out the video to learn more about it.

Don't forget to share in the comments below. Have you experienced resistance around you or have you been the resister? We've all been there. Share away.

5 Reasons Why Following Your Gut will Help Your Biz, Life, & Relationships

OnUZgZFeKA9OZnPQ4LGBc3E2sf1MQ4FVEhn5d5bnktggriGI3GUqgNsjUuAa8rSoxp6nMlLSRF0Vz1hPCa1V4XSQ-mSdN3CcMbF_5QWcOLCea-x8eVAaigwGwmyK941t0mn8v7vtsEp75QNZpVu4NS3GDPWzX_LdxqAqqr14vISVTL_OtAfNQjx7gmULN-U7jkcaR20lFe6PluvEIfax6vVwXundW6uAs a business owner and just a soul living here on earth, I know that there are countless choices to make throughout your lifetime. If it weren’t for following my intuition, it would’ve taken me a lot longer to get to where I am right now. Following your gut is huge! Find out why here: 1. You don’t waste countless hours “trying” to figure out what you want. It’s a common theme for people to come to me for a reading, to get information on what they should be doing. When you use your intuition, you won’t have this problem show up for long.

2. You don't have to analyze everything anymore Whether it’s a romantic, friend, or business relationship there may be times you over analyze every conversation. No need for this anymore, when you use your intuition. When mastering intuition, you feel the energy shift to sureness.

3. You don’t have the urge to run to get everyone’s opinion on different situations that arise

When you’re following your own gut, you will find you aren’t concerned with other people's opinions. No more spinning in circles and more steps toward action. It feels like a breath of fresh air.

4. You attract the RIGHT people to you When you are thinking and feeling clearly, you will attract the people that you need in your life.

5. You feel confident and fulfilled with your life Owning your decisions and trusting everything that comes to you, while receiving messages/signs will stop self doubt in it’s track.

It’s amazing how clear and effortless intuition makes life. Of course, life is life. You will have different situations pop up, but you will be guided on how to handle them. It’s a beautiful thing when you are sure on how to follow your gut without any second guessing.

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People from around the world have come to me for readings, for years.   Some people come for business readings, some for the loss of a loved one, others relationships.  After they receive their reading they want to come back to me. The one rule I have is, they have to wait between 3-6 months for the next reading.  Usually, they want to know what they can do in the mean time, to learn how they can get intuitive information for themselves. I've finally created an E-COURSE to guide people in tuning into their own intuition. My baby "Unlock Your Intuition" was born on March 1st.   She was created from my own experience of following my intuition, refining it, and living through it in every area of my life. We are all born with intuition and "Unlock Your Intuition" holds the tools for you to see the beautiful miracles of the world.  Visiting hours are open and I'm only allowing people to get to know my baby for 19 more days (March 22nd). If you are interested in learning from her, know that the cart closes on March 22nd.  



The 7 Myths About Intuition

I’ve heard it all. There are a lot of misconceptions when it comes to intuition. Here are just some of the many I’ve heard. I'll provide you with the truth. -4 Myth: It’s not easy to tap into your intuition.

Truth: I can teach you how to tap into your intuition in minutes. Since it’s in our DNA, it’s not meant to be difficult. You just have to allow the information to flow through you, instead of over analyzing it. Myth: Only some people are born with it. Truth: No no no…everyone is born with it. It’s our compass in life. Myth:  You have to see a Psychic to get information for yourself. Truth: You don’t need a Psychic to get your information. When you are having a dream, you pick up info real quick…even without hearing words. You telepathically connect. That’s how “real life” intuition is supposed to be. Myth: It’s scary. Truth: It’s really not scary. It’s actually fun and natural once you open up. Myth: Once you open it up, you will see all of the bad things. Truth: You are in charge of your boundaries. Look at how much beauty is around you, it’s all in perception. Myth: You can’t tap into your intuition if you’re far away. Truth: If I’m in the US, and I give a reading to someone in Australia, it’s just like I’m sitting in person with them. Energy cannot be broken and it’s not separated by time or space. Myth: It’s weird. Truth: I guess some people may call it weird, but it’s a cool weird.

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How “Death” Taught Me the Truth About Love

-3A little over 7 years ago, everything was ripped from under me and flipped upside down. My whole world was shattered. I lost the love of my life, Nicholas, in a tragic motorcycle accident. A part of me died with him.  Going through the motions of life, in a trance, was something that was a regular occurrence for me.   On a consistent basis, I had people put their two cents in about how I should start dating. I knew in my mind that would not solve the problem. It would not bring him back.  Nicholas’s love is so strong, that I can feel it from realms away. Through visitations and messages, he’s guided me through my life. He told me to take one moment at a time, live fully, knowing that he would always be there even if I didn’t see him.  I did just that. I started to find the true essence of who I was and love myself unconditionally.  One of the mistakes I had made in the past was putting everyone else before myself.  It was finally time to take care of myself first. When I started to live from my soul, everything else changed for me. Of course, it didn’t bring him back in the physical way, but I continue to feel his beautiful soul guide mine. It’s a heavenly thing that can’t be defined in words.

Four years after he passed, he sent me more love. He sent me his childhood friend that I had never met before. Tony and I connected at a place in our lives where we were completely fulfilled within our souls.  Both of us had many things in common, most importantly our love for Nicholas.  The 5 gifts of  knowledge we were given, that I would love to pass on to you are:


  1. We don’t complete each other, we add to one another’s soul.
  2. There are no questions when your heart knows where it must go.
  3.  Putting ourselves first, in turn helps the other.
  4. There’s no point in searching, we are made of love and more of it will catch up to you.
  5. There’s no replacing love, love never dies, there’s just added love.


Unconditional love is a powerful thing. By getting to a place of feeling this unconditional love for yourself, you will make all of your relationships that much stronger.

Sometimes you need things like this  to remind you, that you are made of love.

Leave a comment below to share your thoughts on LOVE...



Have You Been Meditating All Along and Never Knew It?

-2You don’t have to sit in a cross-legged position with your hands turned up, to meditate! You’ve probably been meditating countless times throughout your day, and didn’t even realize it.  Meditation is a moment where our minds go into a daydream like state. Think of your mind as a car.  When you're on the highway, you can choose cruise control, so that you can just coast. On a side note, I don't like cruise control but it's a perfect example in this situation.  Meditation is cruise control for your brain. You can sit back and relax.  In this world we live in, our thinking is constantly going going and going! Whether it's checking our phones or playing on the computer, we are constantly in overdrive.  It feels good to slow it down once in a while and get into that meditative state. Check out some things you may already be doing, that count as a form of meditation:

  1. Blow drying your hair
  2. Washing the dishes
  3. Vacuuming
  4. Taking a shower
  5. Driving
  6. Riding a bike
  7. Painting
  8. Walking
  9. Swimming
  10. Exercising in general
  11. Sitting in nature

Now, all of the examples listed above are great if you aren’t on the phone or communicating with other people. With awareness and conscious effort to be silent while doing these things, these forms of meditation can help get you exactly where you need to be.   Meditation has some powerful pros!  Take a look:

The Benefits of Meditation:

-Lowers blood pressure

-Balances out your emotions

-Decreases anxiety

-Helps you to focus better

-Increases your memory recall

The next time you go to wash your dishes, stop complaining and remind yourself that you’re improving your well-being!!

In the comments below, share some ways you meditate throughout your day:

The 7 Questions That Will Help You Find out If You're an Empath

-6For as long as I can remember, I’ve been picking up on people’s vibes! I actually used to think their emotions were mine. Luckily now, I know how to make sure I don’t take them on as my own. In the past, it didn’t matter if someone was speaking or not, I felt their EVERYTHING: depression, anger, sadness, anxiety. I was confused because I had no reason to be feeling those emotions and I didn’t understand why my mood was shifting. I later found out that I was an empath. An empath is a fancy word for someone that picks up on the emotions that are attached to a person, place, or thing. Here are 7 questions to ask yourself, to see if you were graced with this fancy title of being an Empath.

1. Have you been told you’re overly sensitive or anxious?

2. Does your mood fluctuate easily, when you’re around certain people?

3. Do you find yourself solving everyone’s problems?

4. Do you feel tired after giving your listening ear to a friend?

5. Are you known for your compassionate heart?

6. Do people tell you how great they feel after talking with you and you all of a sudden feel drained?

7. Do you feel like you are looking for that escape route when you’re in a public place or party?

If you’ve answered YES to the majority of these questions, you are most likely an empath.

Being an Empath has its benefits, but if you don’t know how to manage all of the energy coming into your field, it can be overwhelming.

Here are just 3 of the many tips you can use, to live an enriched life, while still being an empath 1. Know your boundaries: This means limiting your time with people that may drain your energy.

2. Hydrate your body: Drink plenty of water because you will need even more as an empath.

3. Take a breather: Step outside to get fresh air, ground & release the energy. If you feel as though you may be an empath, share your experience in the comments below.

The 2 Main Things People Forget to Leave Behind in 2014

-4 Every 365 Days, we are graced with a brand new year. This is a time where millions of people set new goals and get excited for a fresh start, but they often forget to leave some things behind. Here are the two things you must get rid of. 1. Unused Items

If you haven’t used it in six months, you should either toss it or give it a new home. Clutter that piles up in a closet or corner creates stagnant energy. Lack of physical flow takes up space for new things to come into your life. Take some time to sift through your things and donate unwanted items. By doing this, you are leaving space for things you want to manifest in your life.

2. Grudges Housing pent up emotions within you, does not serve you. And neither does overanalyzing conversations of the past. Whether this anger or frustration is built up against yourself or others, release it. It’s not your job to give this beast of burden shelter. It’s much easier said than done, but the emotional freedom you will experience by evicting it, will open up more space for positive renters. This does not mean you have to forget, it means you are surrendering to a new moment without this burden. Allow these feelings to fall to the wayside, after you are done releasing the tension in your mind, body, and soul. You can do this by visualizing yourself handing it over an eviction notice. Breathe and release. Healing your heart is not an overnight process, but giving yourself permission to get rid of an unwanted tenant can happen immediately.

We don’t have to wait for a new year to leave these items behind. Every 24 hours we are blessed with a new day and every breath we are granted a new moment. Cleanse your physical space and emotions regularly to manifest exactly what you deserve. Leave a comment below about something you've released. Tell us how it made more room for better things to enter your life.

4 Secrets to Embrace Grief During the Holidays

-1I don’t know how you feel about the Holidays, but I know they stir up a lot of emotions. It’s a bittersweet time, especially for those that have suffered the loss of someone close to their heart. Here are some of my secrets to embrace your loved ones, in spirit, during this time:

1. Go Through the Pain

Go through the pain and face it head on. This means ditching the alcohol and quit the binge eating because sadly it won’t bring them back. Believe me, I’ve been there. When feeling overly emotional, it just numbs the pain. Don’t get me wrong, a drink or two is okay but if you’re drinking or eating so that you “don’t feel,” it won’t work out for you in the long run. It’s really easy to overindulge during the holidays anyway, and when you’re going through grief forget about it. It’s magnified! If you’re feeling sad or angry, lose the self-judgment. Either write your feelings in a journal or talk to someone. This means even talking to the person you’ve lost (they’re listening).

2. Keep Open Communication

Open communication is exactly what your loved ones, in spirit, want. If you are speaking to them, pay attention to their response. Their communication may come from a thought that “pops in” your mind or a song that plays on the radio when you “happen” to walk into a room. You may also notice signs that are around you. Pay attention to that penny that showed up or the feather that happened to fly by at the right moment. 3. Embrace Them

Embrace them by lighting a candle or saying a prayer, to acknowledge their soul. You can also write them a letter. Embracing you is embracing them, so they love it if you take time to get a massage or pamper yourself too.

4. Celebrate

Celebrate as if your loved ones are there, because they are! They don’t want you sitting by yourself because you feel guilty having fun without them. They actually want you around friends and family. You can celebrate them by doing things that you loved to do together, like playing your favorite games or movies.

Remember your loved ones are with you always, even during the Holidays. They love to live through you, so make it count!

How do you deal with grief around the holidays? Share your thoughts in the comments below.

I wrote a prayer from a Loved One in Heaven, in the book "365 Days of Angel Prayers" and the book is #1 on Amazon in the Angel Category! Here's the link:

Mother's Day

Mother's Day is supposed to be a very special day to show appreciation for the Mother figures in your life. If you are looking to give her a gift from the heart, you may be interested in giving her a Gift Certificate for a Reading or Energy Healing. If your Mother is in Heaven, you may want to connect with her through a reading.  Call the number below or send me a message with any questions you have about readings and/or Energy Healings.  I wish all of you Mother's a Happy Mother's Day with a lot of peace and relaxation. 10173559_616641061750436_4209667705131529761_n